I received this plea in my post, and it just happens to be one of the biggest problems to get over in a relationship breakdown. My answer is “YES”, as anything is possible.  Trust can be rebuilt! My definition of trust is having complete confidence in someone, where you are comfortable in the knowledge  that [...]

Several months ago I wrote about the benefits of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) especially when it concerns relationship issues.  I have been asked is it the same as Talking Therapy.  CBT happens to be  one of the main types of what is called  ’Talking Therapies’.  The others being counselling and psychotherapy, which  are becoming increasingly [...]

I have had several questions on this topic and this particular story stands out. Jeff’s wife Liz says she loves him but is ‘as cold as ice’ as she no longer shows him any affection.  Jeff is at a loss to explain why there is no intimacy, or any attempt at showing affection, in their [...]

There has been a dating site advertising on national TV here in the UK for the last few months.  Run by Match.com at prime time, it shows there must still be a lot of money in the online dating industry.  Not that it’s having things all it’s own way.  Social network sites such as Facebook [...]

Here’s an extract of an email from ‘Alex’, who is craving for his ex, as she wants them to meet up.  Alex is also very happy in another relationship. “My ex left me to live with another man 9 months’ ago.  She admitted cheating on me for much of our two year relationship.  I was [...]

I was recently asked a question, a friend’s long term relationship was going downhill fast, should he use reverse psychology to save it? Reverse Psychology in relationships is the deliberate manipulation of someone who is required to act the opposite to what is suggested to them.  If you think about it we have been using [...]